3 Things You should Never Say or Do to “Just a Friend”

If you’re a guy and wanted to build friendship with girls, do not say things that will complicate your relationship with them. Saying things beyond what you can do or give is like Japan throwing bombs on Pearl Harbor. Okay, I’m exaggerating. I’m saying that being careful with the words you say to a woman would save you from a big amount of trouble in the long run.

Phrases like :

1. Where have you been all my life?

2. You are my dream come true.

3. And so on…

These phrases flatters women. Most women are suckers for these cheesy pick up line. Oh well, there so many reasons however. Read along.

If you’re thinking that you can get them by your alluring charisma,  infinite charm and undying praises, lucky you but hey man, think again. You wouldn’t want them to shut you off entirely at the end when they find out that your words and praises are just empty words. 

If you haven’t known, there are rules and boundaries in friendship. Being careful of what you say in front of them would save you and them from tons of heartache.

These words and phrases below are very special in the heart of the woman.

1. You and I are so special.

This phrase is very meaningful to every woman. It’s like an endearment to her heart and a promise that you are just making.  When you say this to a woman, your relationship with her is so precious and unique that no other woman could surpass it. However, if you can’t back up your words with action, you’ll regret the day you say the words. Once a woman finds out that you are doing this to every woman you have met, Have you heard about woman and her anger? You don’t want to meet her in person. Okay, not really. If you are not scared with the bullets flying on the air, be ready with the flying “eye dagger” that would pierce through your core. Let’s just go to #2.

2. You are my best-friend and I want to marry my best friend.

Somehow, you have said something that just too precious for her to hear. Of course, everyone would like to marry their best friend and whichever tone you have choose to say it, it comes down with a promise. Yes, a promise that one and her would end up together. one day, sure, you haven’t declared your love for her and your agenda of why you are saying it,  but the phrase above have said it all.  You are walking in a thin thread just by saying this. Forget about how dangerous it is to detonate a bomb because the moment she hears this, you have planted a bomb in her heart that will explode at any moment once you’ll make a mistake.

3. You are calling her every day and night.

Phone calls are too personal. When you call her and tell her everything about you, your dreams, your vision and goals and how things have been, it means something to a woman. The fact is that you are making an effort to call her day and night, it looks like you are thinking of her quite often. Giving her a phone call regularly is quite something. There are Golden Rules for Phone Call if you haven’t read it, go ahead read.

You see, even Sigmund Freud has troubles of understanding the heart and mind about women.

How it works and how it function? It’s like navigating into a road of no maps. I think only God knows the heart of every woman. The world knows that a woman and a man are different species; how their minds work is entirely different from yours. You have heard many times that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and when it comes to friendship – dating, Mars, and Venus have to declare war on Earth once the rules of engagement are breached.

How would they patch up their relationship? It depends on how much they both navigate their relationship.

You haven’t declared our intention and your inner purpose of why you’re saying these words,  but if your action says so, be prepared for the war that is unintentionally started. Remember that action speaks louder than words. Be careful on how you say it and how you do it in front of her. To hurt a friend is worse than hurting a pigeon in the hunt.

Women don’t forget easily. Or perhaps it depends on every woman. However, if you want to build friendship and you just want to put her on your “friend zone list”, don’t give her any hint and signs of you liking her too much as more than friends, especially when you are too good looking to resist. Of course, the blame isn’t yours alone and to claim. Woman has it fault too beyond its cure. Remember, it takes two to tango. She has to take the blame too in the article written next.

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